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THE MEHER SCHOOLS
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Parenting from the Heart
Weekly insight and tips for a loving approach to parenting from our preschool director Susie Kohl.


Boundaries: A Tricky Balance
Can you remember a childhood experience of being forced to do something or stop doing something, and the adults involved didn’t...
Susie Kohl
Oct 6, 20222 min read


Making Togetherness a Game
Want your child to be able play cooperatively with others? Many interactive games teach social skills in an enjoyable way that promotes...
Susie Kohl
Sep 29, 20222 min read


Two Steps Forward, One Step Back
Why do parents feel so much frustration when a child’s development suddenly goes backward? When we have a child who has adjusted to...
Susie Kohl
Sep 22, 20222 min read


Recognizing Helpful Contributions
We have a delightful photo exhibit in our Hallway Gallery, and we hope families and classroom groups will spend time looking at the...
Susie Kohl
Sep 15, 20222 min read


Punctuality Without Pain
Make being punctual a family value that communicates the message “I respect you and care about you” in any situation, but particularly...
Susie Kohl
Sep 8, 20222 min read


Be A Welcomer
I believe in the world and its bigness and splendor, that most of the hearts beating round us are tender; … that strangers are friends...
Susie Kohl
Sep 1, 20222 min read


Working Together for All
“Learning to work together, learning to work as one; learning to work together, that’s how life’s work gets done. ... We are building...
Susie Kohl
Jun 2, 20222 min read


A Child’s Life Story
“WHEN I WAS A BABY, my first word was ‘cookie.’” A child’s sense of having a life story doesn’t happen automatically as they enter...
Susie Kohl
May 26, 20221 min read


Friendship Dynamics
“Old friends, new friends, this is what we do, friends – sing and dance with you.” —Sandra Star This time of year, when we say good-bye...
Susie Kohl
May 19, 20222 min read


Channeling Spring Energy
THE FORCES THAT RUN through plants and baby lambs in spring run through all, though it’s often most apparent in children. At school,...
Susie Kohl
May 13, 20221 min read


A Sense of Entitlement
FINDING THE BALANCE between protecting children and enabling a sense of entitlement can be challenging. No one wants to raise an...
Susie Kohl
May 5, 20223 min read


(Positive) Word of the Day
DICTIONARIES URGE PEOPLE to build vocabulary, at any age, by picking a “word of the day” and finding ways to use it in various...
Susie Kohl
Apr 28, 20222 min read


After-School “Collapse”
JOYFUL AFTER-SCHOOL REUNIONS are difficult when a child gets angry because they have to leave an activity or they fall apart in the car...
Susie Kohl
Apr 21, 20222 min read


“A Chance to Start Over”
“SAY YOU’RE SORRY.” Adults often insist on children making apologies, thinking that having to say “sorry” is part of learning not to...
Susie Kohl
Apr 14, 20222 min read


Being Courageous
“WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO TALK ABOUT how brave and special our daughter is.” These words are part of a recent note to Room 4 families from...
Susie Kohl
Apr 1, 20222 min read


Asking for Help
“WHY DIDN’T YOU ASK FOR HELP?” Occasionally parents report feeling frustrated when their child tells them at night that they needed...
Susie Kohl
Mar 24, 20222 min read


Discovering Children's “Unique Note”
“WHO DO YOUR THINK YOU ARE?” That’s a question that Caroline McHugh asks CEOs, politicians, ballet dancers, musicians, and countless...
Susie Kohl
Mar 17, 20222 min read


Changing Unwanted Behavior
Why would you do that? What were you thinking? What did I just tell you? Are you trying to upset me? How many times do I have to tell...
Susie Kohl
Mar 10, 20222 min read


Take Time to Be Silly
SEVERAL SECONDS OF SILLINESS can transform a difficult moment with a child, and taking time for humor helps us all remember to try to...
Susie Kohl
Mar 6, 20222 min read


Learning Practical Life Skills
My daughter’s college roommate had no idea how to operate a washing machine and commuted home her whole first year to have her mom do her...
Susie Kohl
Feb 24, 20222 min read
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