Remember as a child waking early on a holiday or birthday with the inner knowing that there is more to life than what we can see? A deeply felt meaning, a divine presence, a responsive universe. At this time of year, adults continually set the stage for children to experience moments of MAGIC. In the midst of holiday conviviality and heightened social activity, we hope the meaning of the holidays will emerge when children take a breath of timelessness and joy. It all starts with stillness, the hallmark of the winter season.
Moments that distill the holiday’s meaning How does it happen? One father remembers, “I loved waiting for it to get dark and lighting the Chanukah candles. I’d get mesmerized watching the fire burn.” Perhaps the adults couldn’t tell that this father was having silent sacred moments as a child, but performing the ritual today still carries those feelings for him.
Sometimes we get a sense that children are moved by visual beauty or sound. When my grandson went to a house of worship a few years ago, he looked at a painting and whispered the word “behold.” We had no idea he had ever heard that word. If we see a child touched by something they see or hear, we can show that that we don’t want to interrupt their enjoyment.
We live in an area generous with light displays, and many families love taking nighttime tours of the beautiful displays. We can allow children to actually be still if they are silently absorbed in a particular scene. Maybe they are feeling a kind of awe at what they are seeing that can’t be spoken in words.
A chance to contemplate stillness At Sufism Reoriented’s solstice celebration on December 22, families have the chance to see a live tableau of the Nativity, frozen in stillness. Children will be able to view some of their teachers transformed into living statues caught in adoration of a newborn child. Again, in the midst of so much motion, there is the unusual opportunity to fully contemplate being still.
There are also teachers in the choral performances on that day, and many of the songs may be familiar to everyone and bring stirring remembrances of traditional music from winter holidays past.
Songs that create images of beauty and unity Many of the songs composed for and sung at our school are designed to inspire moments of wonder in children: Quiet as a Cloud, Bird of Perfect Joy, Pine Tree, Love Grows Like a Rose, When Every Heart. They are the auditory equivalent of looking at a surprisingly stunning sunset or display of holiday lights that pulls us into a contemplation of all the beauty in existence.
We hope you have moments of inner stillness and restoration during this busy, bright season.