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Parenting from the Heart
Weekly insight and tips for a loving approach to parenting from our preschool director Susie Kohl.


Naming Those Big Feelings
“My friends left me out today. No one likes me.” It can be hard for adults to know how to respond to children’s painful feelings. We want...
Susie Kohl
Apr 29, 20212 min read


Admitting Our Mistakes, Resetting
“You need to reset your voice,” one of our first graders reminds his mother when he thinks her words are carrying too much intensity. How...
Susie Kohl
Apr 22, 20212 min read


When a New Rule Is Needed
A kind of daily art auction began occurring in one of our preschool rooms. Individual artists would spontaneously give work to their...
Susie Kohl
Apr 15, 20212 min read


Resisting the Temptation to Blame
“It’s all their fault.” Last spring a few kindergarteners announced that Asian people had caused the coronavirus. Their teachers, who...
Susie Kohl
Mar 31, 20212 min read


A Timely Solution
Parent: “Time to turn off the TV.” Child: “No, I want to see the next part.” We often wish for magic solutions for challenges that...
Susie Kohl
Mar 25, 20212 min read


Finding the Right Way to Say No
In a popular Discover Card ad, actors say no in a variety of ways: “C’mon, now, no,” “No way,” “Uh-uh,” “Nyet!” It’s fun to see...
Susie Kohl
Mar 22, 20212 min read


Channeling Children’s Spring Energy
Expect new behaviors in spring. The same force that courses through blossoming plants and propels baby animals to explore their...
Susie Kohl
Mar 11, 20211 min read


Democracy in the Classroom and Home
With discussions about the American Constitution in the news, it’s a nice time to explore principles of democracy and how they can...
Susie Kohl
Mar 5, 20212 min read


Whose Property? Ownership and Respect
Learning the lessons of ownership takes time and patience, and there are opportunities for new learning on this subject even into...
Susie Kohl
Mar 4, 20212 min read


A Better Alternative to the "Why Question"
One question commonly asked of children can undermine efforts to help them learn self-regulation and to respect agreed-upon rules. The...
Susie Kohl
Feb 18, 20212 min read


Art’s Special Meaning for Children
In Michael Slack’s Saturday Zoom presentation, he detailed the way he had written and illustrated books like Dinosaur and Boy, as well as...
Susie Kohl
Feb 11, 20211 min read


Making Parents’ Work Visible
Last week children loved watching art teacher Lara Cannon at work on a ladder in the hall, carefully painting the outline of a huge tree....
Susie Kohl
Feb 4, 20212 min read


Respecting Communication Differences
“I couldn’t find the words” is a phrase we often use when our ability to speak falls short of what we want to express. Watching the...
Susie Kohl
Jan 27, 20212 min read


Supporting Children’s Ability to Focus
“I CAN TELL THAT MY TWO-YEAR-OLD has the ability to focus because of the expression he gets on his face when he listens to music.” This...
Susie Kohl
Jan 20, 20212 min read


Noticing Acts of “Greatness”
On a noisy day when the teachers in my older daughter’s second grade classroom needed everyone’s attention, they made this request....
Susie Kohl
Jan 13, 20212 min read


Coping With “Big Feelings”
Naming difficult emotions and the events that cause them is the first stage in teaching children resilience. Big feelings are abounding...
Susie Kohl
Jan 5, 20212 min read


What Did You Give?
If you buy children gifts at this time of year, or on other occasions, you might be interested in an important article Ben West’s dad,...
Susie Kohl
Dec 16, 20202 min read


Children Discover the Power to Help
Fifteen year-old Gitanjali Rao is the first child to be featured on the cover of Time magazine. This is an important breakthrough for our...
Susie Kohl
Dec 9, 20202 min read


Write Your Child a Love Note
Tuck a personal note into your child’s lunch box. It’s a guaranteed way to brighten any day. In the midst of concentrating, adjusting to...
Susie Kohl
Dec 2, 20202 min read
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