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Parenting from the Heart
Weekly insight and tips for a loving approach to parenting from our preschool director Susie Kohl.


Ensuring Your Child’s Safety On Playdates
Parents often ask me questions about sending their children on playdates. Understandably, they wonder about allowing their children to go...
Susie Kohl
Nov 18, 20213 min read


Reflecting on the Day
“What were the happiest and hardest things that happened today?” One family posed that question at dinner each night, and invited family...
Susie Kohl
Nov 11, 20212 min read


Tuning in to the Backstory
Arriving at school, a four-year-old has an unpleasant surprise. She reaches in her jacket pocket for her mask, but pulls out only a...
Susie Kohl
Nov 4, 20212 min read


Validating Children's Feelings
“I’m sad my friend played with someone else the whole time after lunch.” Once up a time, best practices for raising a happy child meant...
Susie Kohl
Nov 2, 20212 min read


Halloween’s Scary Images
Halloween gives all of us the opportunity to understand what kinds of scary images are manageable and fun for children and which ones...
Susie Kohl
Oct 21, 20212 min read


Dealing With Children’s Stress, Anxiety, Frustration
Imagine finally making the long trip to a grandparent’s house after months away, then within hours having to leave because your child’s...
Susie Kohl
Oct 14, 20212 min read


"We Can Help!"
“If you want to help, help, help, we can do it. We can clean, we can help, help, help.” A group of preschoolers sang these lyrics...
Susie Kohl
Oct 7, 20212 min read


Harmonious Resolutions
“I know my voice can sound a little intense sometimes when I’m under stress, so I try to tune in to the way I sound with my co-workers,”...
Susie Kohl
Sep 30, 20212 min read


Telling the Truth
The Nurtured Heart Approach helps us deal with many complicated issues in a straightforward, transformative way. One example is the...
Susie Kohl
Sep 23, 20212 min read


The Need for Some Alone Time
“If I’m around people right now, I might bite someone,” a preschooler explained. She wanted to stay in the quiet space she had created...
Susie Kohl
Sep 16, 20212 min read


Adding Whimsy to Our Lives
I never learned to blow bubble gum and pop it. My granddaughter told me it’s never too late and kindly broke bubble blowing into steps:...
Susie Kohl
Sep 9, 20212 min read


A “Life-Changing” Approach
Before: “I was hesitant when I heard about it – it’s the opposite of the way I’ve always thought as a parent and a teacher.” “I felt like...
Susie Kohl
Sep 2, 20212 min read


A Community Based on Caring, Inclusion
"When I becomes we, even illness becomes wellness.” Charles Roppel My grandson always loved giving me high-fives. That stopped during...
Susie Kohl
Aug 27, 20212 min read


Communicating About the “Ripples”
Maria Montessori, the famous Italian educator, called the process of helping a child successfully adjust to a new class and be open to...
Susie Kohl
Aug 3, 20212 min read


Nothing More Important
One evening I arrived punctually at an editor’s house to talk about a manuscript. “I’ll be a few minutes,” she said as she opened the...
Susie Kohl
Jun 11, 20212 min read


Welcoming Summer, Mindfully
Parents and teachers have become better observers of children over this year. Staying home, starting distance learning, going back to...
Susie Kohl
Jun 3, 20212 min read


Pat Yourself on the Back
It took months for Margo to help her son Michael to show some self-regulation and talk about his feelings rather than having a tantrum...
Susie Kohl
May 27, 20212 min read


Creating Positive Outcomes
This is the season to remind children of important milestones. Whether a child is going to a new class or a new grade, rest assured that...
Susie Kohl
May 20, 20212 min read


Having Two Feelings at Once
Children feel safer when adults have the wisdom to know that two emotions can be real at the same time. Traditionally, grown-ups have...
Susie Kohl
May 13, 20212 min read


Rewards as Incentives, Not Bribes
Companies are spending millions to research what incentives motivate employees to give their best. Fitness and dieting gurus use...
Susie Kohl
May 6, 20212 min read
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